Since two weeks ago I updated 11 clients' shops to php 8.3, mostly clients used 8.1 version.
Only one shipping plugin required some updates (other than that nothing has changed). Imho this proves my point of view. The proactive way is better to be done, rather than to wait for these updates on all plugins (and be more time consuming - you never see one of them...).
But if there are people, that support this "wait and see" approach, thats fine, too, no problem